well, I get the point but they were my friends and a marriage is something to celebrate. It will be one week since no contact, so I sit in my apartment and wait. I run around and do my errands during Sat morning or after work, so when daughter or ex calls I am there doing nothing, just waiting. If I have to go anywhere, like a couple of Sat. nights ago, I volunteer at the local food pantry and we had a meeting because we were getting a new director. So it was like a dinner meeting and we all had pizza. I made sure that I told ex why our daughter could not stay with me on sat night because I didn't know how long this meeting was going to be (you know when girls get together who know how long before we stop talking) I told him the street address and I parked right out front, so if we wanted to check my story, he could. Even when I was still living with OM, I would spend every Fri and Sat night over the ex's house--if I was how and heavy, would I spend time over there on the weekends? I still have things over the OM's house, I don't know how I'm going to get the stuff.
