Actually elwood my ex and our daughter went to a Halloween party the same time as the wedding, so I wasn't going to see them, so they both don't know that I went to the wedding, after reception, I went home to my place and was up the next morning to meet them at church. I don't offer any information about where I am going, if our daughter is not involved and the ex does the same. Was planning to invite him over to dinner, but at church he looked so pale and after church he told me he didn't feel well at all. So I took daughter for the day, we cleaned and organized her room and I made dinner for them.