very well said. i am trying to put this advice into action myself. The part about the wife thinking the man doesn't want to get back with her IS a concern of Mine. I know i must try to dismiss that idea. Hard though!
Rob,
I am late to your quote and I may screw up your efforts.
My W has disappeared off the radar completely and I would dearly love Sandis' input into my thread in Infidelity, however the last time she twatted me within a huge 2x4. But she is the one voice on here that I would follow almost religiously. You are lucky she is following your thread and offering you advice.
That is not quite the point. NS / GAL / etc. is for us. And, while my wife has vanished, I wouldn't actually change it because I am 1000000000 (not enough zeroes but you get the idea) better than I was. I am the man W actually married, but with 7 years of experience and the experience of these forums. Don't EVER underestimate the value of the advice that your are given.
Anyway, what I will say is do you know what? See all this 180 stuff, it looks dangerous doesn't it? I will try and quote what it says in a book - if you keep doing the same thing it will get the same results - that is insanity ...
Just try something else mate ...
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
