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mindfull,

like i said i only read the very first one...its all good though. my h had made remarks bout driving into a tree...

i will read the whole thing later...

one d had me up MOST of the night...

i havent set any goals or such yet...

for right now, i know i want to SAVE my marriage...

have a good day!


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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Gnosis,

is h taking d to dr a small task?

heres the sitch ...

h fell at work and hurt his back...not terribly i hope but bad enough dr will not allow him to work...very physical job.

no light duty...hence no work

is it wrong to want him to care for daughters ( instead of dad ) until he is able to work again?

he has offered, to help me and dad, however im not sure if this may be too much...

it would be great that he gets to spend more time with them...much more with 5 y/o than 8 y/o as she is home way earlier...8 y/o and i get home at roughly the same time...


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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Gnosis,

ok I did do 2 out of my 3. not bad I hope my 5 y/o had me up all night. i think i may have gotten 2 or so hours of sleep...

peaceful shower AND a LARGE latte...simple change...the flavors of the latte were better! No haircut though...honestly I was just too tired!

for tomorrow i hope its ok to do the same, hopefully including the haircut!

may also go to dinner with my little sis, if h can stay with the kids.

for 2 morrow

1. LONG RELAXING shower
2. pumpkin spice latte
3. haircut


have a great night! im heading to bed...hopefully to get some much needed sleep!

ps tomorrow is FRIDAY!!! YEAH!!!!


me 39
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kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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Lost, why are you so tired?


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Mf,

Im exhausted! my little girl had me up for the better part of the night...not feeling well.

h took her to doc today, she has a urinary tract infection frown one hell of a bad head cold too. thank god no strep throat or ear infection!

on her 2nd dose of the antibiotic and fast asleep. along with big sis! hopefull she wont get up feeling as crappy as she did last night!


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kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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Oh, NO!!! Good Luck! Go to sleep!!!


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Wow! what some sleep can do for a person!

talk to all later!!


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still going...10 months later...




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Sorry I was out last night having fun. Two out of the three is good, especially considering the lack of sleep you had. I'm glad you're well rested. Your three for today are good. You can keep those three for another day while you look for more things.

I need to update my own thread, but you're doing good. I hope to find some time this weekend to read through your entire thread and come up with some suggestions for you.

((( lost )))


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no need to be sorry!

im so grateful you are able to help...hope you had a great time!

if you do have time to read...let me know if you have ANY questions...


me 39
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h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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ok G,

I did 3 out of 4...

1. nice long shower
2. another latte

still no haircut, but i did go out tonight for a bit...

didnt really feel right with h not there, but I DID IT!!!

im gonna keep the same for 2morrow minus the haircut...it will be impossible with the kids...i am gonna add instead...

1. relaxing shower
2. flavored coffee...i bought some today, for the weekends
3. im gonna watch a movie that I want to see, tomorrow night

chat soon!


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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