We are dammed if we do, dammed if we don't. They still want us around, but push us away. They still love us, but hate what we represent. They think freedom is the answer, but still miss the family unit.
Fear is a big part of my ex. I saw so much fear when he was still living here. I felt sorry for him, but could not help him.
Ex sent me an email today asking about the Holiday schedule. He does this every Christmas. It is in our divorce decree, but he still asks.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
