Originally Posted By: wifeleft2009
in all honesty ALL honesty I would say no! go sit down and prob think wow there was a chance to get back what I miss. but missing her and who she is now are two totally differant things.. so sad but true I would want her but wont take her back


Then WL, you're done ... if you TRULY mean that, you're done.

From my own sitch, if W came back tomorrow I would sit down with her and talk. But, at the moment, that is it. You have moved beyond that.

My advice is to sit down, GAL and prepare for D. But D on your terms.

For what it's worth I'm truly sorry.


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"