WAW wants to get togeather?

[P17]

in all honesty ALL honesty I would say no! go sit down and prob think wow there was a chance to get back what I miss. but missing her and who she is now are two totally differant things.. so sad but true I would want her but wont take her back

Then WL, you're done ... if you TRULY mean that, you're done.

From my own sitch, if W came back tomorrow I would sit down with her and talk. But, at the moment, that is it. You have moved beyond that.

My advice is to sit down, GAL and prepare for D. But D on your terms.

For what it's worth I'm truly sorry.

[wifeleft2009]

Im a little confused.. in one post I should have her deal with what she did to the kids, then later i should drop it????

[P17]

Im a little confused.. in one post I should have her deal with what she did to the kids, then later i should drop it????

No, no confusion.

She should deal with the kids, end of story. She needs to own that WL.

My last post was about you. You want to end it?

[wifeleft2009]

well no but I cant take her back too much damage.. she is not the person I love.. she only holds the vag look of a past

[P17]

well no but I cant take her back too much damage.. she is not the person I love.. she only holds the vag look of a past

WL, you you can't take her back? Yes? okay.

So what are you doing here?

[wifeleft2009]

well like others I started out with the hope of working it out.. now im just trying to get through it.. is this wrong then?

[chatterbug]

No sir.

It is not.

[bluerain]

Hi WL, I have no intention of EVER trying anymore with my H. But I think that there is a lot of support available here and I think that drawing on it, and the experience of people who have been through all parts of these situations is invaluable.

That includes you, when you are ready, I think that you might have a lot to offer to new people here.

So, Im sorry that things have gone the way that they have, but I think that you are definately a stronger, more determined man then you were when I first met you. Congratulations, even if it was hard won.

(((Wifeleft2009)))

[wifeleft2009]

Thanks ALOT !!

Its been a veru rough year and I know its still a long way to go for me. I have gotten great advice on these boards and Ive learned so much from others I hope to help people out on here and maybe others will learn from me and what I went through..

I know looking back I could have done several things better but I also know I tried very hard and each situation is differant so although mine did not turn out the way I wanted it did turn out with me knowing im a better person and my kids can count on me

[P17]

well like others I started out with the hope of working it out.. now im just trying to get through it.. is this wrong then?

WL, my apologies.

I was actually trying to get you to question yourself because I didn't feel that you were done.

I suppose it was still valuable as you stuck to what you said and reiterated it again. In no way did I mean 'get out of here'