I don't thing Luv is stubborn. I think her H is being a jackass, and she's starting to hate it/him, and is probably pushing him away. I think she's defending.
Help me understand, G.
To ME, stubborn would be... He acts like a jackass. She deals w/it for awhile. He realizes he's being a jackass, and apologizes/tries to make it right. Luv puts a wall up around herself, and keeps him out/away, and makes him suffer for his jackassness, w/out considering forgiveness, based on his apology.
He's not sorry. He's disputing her accusations w/out validating her concerns w/fact. He's being MORE of a jackass upon knowing she's suspicious.
Last edited by mindfull; 12/18/0901:47 AM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.