I don't thing Luv is stubborn. I think her H is being a jackass, and she's starting to hate it/him, and is probably pushing him away. I think she's defending.

Help me understand, G.

To ME, stubborn would be... He acts like a jackass. She deals w/it for awhile. He realizes he's being a jackass, and apologizes/tries to make it right. Luv puts a wall up around herself, and keeps him out/away, and makes him suffer for his jackassness, w/out considering forgiveness, based on his apology.

He's not sorry. He's disputing her accusations w/out validating her concerns w/fact. He's being MORE of a jackass upon knowing she's suspicious.

Last edited by mindfull; 12/18/09 01:47 AM.

Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.