SD - I just wanted to check in real quick as I am still busy at work. Please look into getting your boys into therapy as soon as you can..it will be extremely important for them as the three of you navigate through this.

Also, don't worry about making decisions about your M at this very minute. You just got hit with all this. Focus on the important things now, your boys, you and protecting yourself. There will be plenty of time later on to sort through all of that when you have had time to detach, heal and become the new and improved SD. And let's face it, your W has many issues to sort through herself right now. I'm no expert, but I really think you need to let that process happen.

Oh and do go out. And have fun. I turned the corner when I got my self esteem back. It will happen for you also. And you will have a great life. Either your W will ask to be a part of it or she won't. Either way you'll be fine.

Strength and Honor.

Mules

Last edited by mulesqb; 12/18/09 12:43 AM.
M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.