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And does this version of your W that you describe feel the same about permanently ending a relationship even when he (YOU) is new and improved? How do you know?


I don't know what you mean there newmama.


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W also said to me one time that when she is done with an relationship, she never goes back.


I mean that you have improved yourself and continue to do so. So her old perspective of you is not the same. She is seeing your changes and will be curious.

The P she left behind is different than the P today. Ergo, (LOL) she won't be going back to the old relationship. She would be starting a new one with a new P.

besides, we have all said things...like "if you cheated on me that would be a deal breaker. We would be DONE!!"


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004