The continuing saga of P ...

[Arwen_in_NJ]

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I thought about calling mine earlier and asking if it would just be easier to file for D than waiting on W dragging her a$$ seeing her lawyer about the separation agreement. I mean, she only got it on 3 October so she's only had like 2 MONTHS!
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If she has so WELL and TRULY moved on and forgotten you, as you believe, then why is she waiting so long with the separation agreement? You think she'd be glad to sign it and get on with it. Things that make you go "hmmmmm"".....

My W has been the same. In March I heard "we are definitely separating and getting a divorce".
In May I heard "I want to do this as quickly as possible and get on with my life".
In June I heard "I want to have a separation agreement by the end of July. I don't like to sit in my pain." HER pain? Ha!

In October my atty heard from her atty, formalizing the verbal agreement we made setting the "end date" for our relationship. My atty sent back our changes in Nov. We still haven't heard whether the changes are acceptable, and if she has signed off on them so I can sign the agreement. I am sure it was her atty that pushed to have the agreement on paper, not my W.

We are scheduled with the mediator in Feb. My W is not happy that this was the "earliest appt she could get".

She hasn't filed for D. Still.

I think she appears to move things forward with the D for the benefit of the OW, since I am sure she is getting pressure. I also think this is her way of alleviating her guilt about being in an A- "well I am in the process of D". But if she well and truly wants the D as soon as possible, she hasn't taken the quickest route... why? Maybe there is a part of her deep inside that isn't 100% sure...