A Choice

[P17]

@P17

I guess it would be safe to say "I have not reached the point that I need to be at to really let go" and I know that I haven't.

I do understand though. I am just hard headed. Most so "scared".

Thanks for the reply. I know you are right.

Pat,

I con myself sometimes into thinking I've really let go myself. I'm about 90% of the way there I think (others may disagree) but sometimes I get pulled back and I'm only 50% of the way there.

You're scared. We're all scared. You want to save your M. We all do. The way to save it is to let it go and I'm nto saying that from experience, as I haven't done that yet, but from reading and understanding.

If I can say anything about my own sitch it's that I wish I came here at the start. The reason you are being told the same stuff over and over again by different people is ... it actually does work!

Chin up. Don't send the letter (please!) - write it if you want to, that's cool. Just don't give it to her. Write it and burn it.

I see you've gone dark - I have too, since 17 November. I feel for you as you are only 2 days into the second one. One of the toughest things I've ever had to do but I can tell you that throughout the whole breakup it is the best thing I ever did. The difference in me is incredible. If you knew me then and now, you wouldn't recognise me. It DOES get easier, believe me.