They both see the unhealthy behavior, as they have talked to me about it. The drinking, the hurtful words, late nights out-or NOT coming home, etc, etc.
I must be the solid role model, show them the right way to handle adversity, and manage relationships. They both have said that I didn't do anything wrong-I quickly corrected them, but they know their M is completely crazy right now.
I will give them as much normalcy as I can over the next week, and set a solid foundation for them to stand on.
She is also teaching them to speak to someone you love in a disrespectful manner, disregard your children, and that fast food is groceries. S15 told me he HATES fast food now-crazy huh, a teenager.
Last edited by SoldierDad; 12/17/0911:45 PM.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010