Got an idea. What if the reason she says she "can't promise" is b/c what if OM reaches out to her and she...answers a text, or picks up the call - just to say "stop contact" or "I'm not doing this anymore." Technically, she's broken her promise. I'm just guessing and in a way, trying to credit what she said about "You are not sharing me with OM." Maybe she is just that literal. And if so, you could put some words in her mouth - "If OM ever calls you, emails or texts, you will be in the clear with me if you immediately forward the text/email to me...or show me the missed call that you didn't take." In case she is concerned that those kinds of things count against her. Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
