Pat, I don't think you should write her a love letter, as much as you want to. Go dark dark dark like a black cloud.
Pat, if you write a love letter I will come over there and twat you with a 2x4 personally.
I've posted bits and pieces on this thread but I feel so strongly about this that I have to say it.
For a bit of history.
I did this. I wrote W a love letter. From the heart. It's one of those love letters you can really only ever write one of. I sobbed, I wrenched from the heart, I ached. I pulled every bit of love I had and poured it onto the page - 4 A4 sizes (about a Letter size in the US). I hand wrote it with a fountain pen onto writing paper which amounted to 33 small pages. I even put the cologne W bought me for our wedding onto a few pages.
Do you know what she did with this letter? She didn't even read it. She said she couldn't.
Don't do what I did and pursue her. It won't work and it's not worth it. Listen to the guys here, they will not steer you wrong.
Remember, write the letter and I'm getting on a plane ...
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"