well maybe I will make dinner for him, get him a cake and get a card, general but hey, he gets eveything he needs but I was thinking of a gas card, since he does travel alot. Inside the card tell him I didn't know what I could give him except that again I am so sorry for everything that has happened, all the missunderstandings and lack of communication. I really wish both of us honored the "for better or worse" part of our vows. How's that sound?