gima, so what you are saying is, right now, even after all she has said/done, to NOT drop the rope as I am in an emotional hell right now? I dunno.
No, I'm NOT saying that. You will know when you're done. Like I said, with no A in my sitch, it took me longer to get to that point. Add an A, and especially the bitterness your W seems to have, and I could get there MUCH faster.