Interesting... my H complained that he was doing so much and spending so much on others and felt it was his time to do things for himself.
I think my W is doing the same. She did say to me once that she had "woken up" so the R and the problems. Pity she didn't do that and try to then fix them than taking the easy way out and running away.
But, as I've said many times before, all WAS's are cowards.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"