10:56 p.m. in Scotland? P, are you up late playing Call of Duty?
I have to admit I am indulging. This isn't something I did while I was with W, but I am ... indulging. That and a nice bottle of red wine (something I also never really did when W was here). And it's currently 11:23pm.
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Man, your "crystal ball reading" is so dismal and gloomy regarding what your W will do.
You are 100% correct. I see only negativity today. I feel, with the pic of OM and W, my face is being well and truly rubbed in it. That was the catalyst for me. I also haven't seen the pic - asked a friend to print it in case I need it for the D. "Me and my man" - that's her showing off talk. You don't hear it much.
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You "know" her so well, yet did you ever guess she would have an A?
In hindight, given her addictive behaviour, I show have seen it. No, I actually NEVER EVER thought she'd have an A. It never really crossed my mind ever.
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And does this version of your W that you describe feel the same about permanently ending a relationship even when he (YOU) is new and improved? How do you know?
I don't know what you mean there newmama.
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BTW my H also pleased others more than himself...and As are selfish. So I wonder if there is something to that connection?
I'm no psychologist, but maybe they just snap and go from one extreme to the other. They do that when they pick OP's (usually, although not always, the complete opposite of the LBS) and they also do that in their personalities (ie. replaced by an alien).
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Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"