gima, I have some issues-no doubt about it. Being in the Army, and my position, I am very controlling.
Also, I am a neat freak, I want things orderly.
I have EXPECTATIONS of my W/kids, that they will do the right thing, when I am not around.
I have trust issues-based upon my first M, and my current W behavior. THIS one will be hard to resolve.
Obviously, now, I have self-esteem issues.
I dunno, I know there are many more.
EVERYBODY'S got issues, man. The ones who don't just haven't figured it out yet.
So, change what needs changing. Forgive yourself - one of my favorite expressions is that Forgiveness means giving up all hope of a better past. Water under the bridge. Learn from it, but don't dwell on it.
