Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

gima,
I have some issues-no doubt about it. Being in the Army, and my position, I am very controlling.

Also, I am a neat freak, I want things orderly.

I have EXPECTATIONS of my W/kids, that they will do the right thing, when I am not around.

I have trust issues-based upon my first M, and my current W behavior. THIS one will be hard to resolve.

Obviously, now, I have self-esteem issues.

I dunno, I know there are many more.