Since I am all in my new place-alone, I realized that my ex-h 40th birthday is coming up. Daughter says she wants to make him something. What is appropriate for me to do? I want to acknowledge that it is the big 40 and that I'm thinking about him but I don't want to go overboard and screw it up either! We live in the same town now and I am still picking up dropping off daughter. I asked him to drop daughter off and he said no. So he has not gone to see my apartment yet.
