Leave that misplaced guilt for the Catholics (joking - no flames, please!). Do you own part of the responsibility for the dive your M has taken? Uh-huh. And you're going to dig in that dirt to get right with yourself. But don't own it all. Yes, you did some things wrong. GET IN LINE. We all do. Don't dwell there. Learn there and grow.
Spreading cheer ~ Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08