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[MichelleLT]

I know now I couldn't make her happy-hell I don't think anything could make my W happy.

This is something our society is very bad about teaching...things don't make us happy. Money doesn't make us happy. Presents don't make us happy. Not in any lasting sense.

Happiness comes from inside. From appreciating the little things. From investing time and effort into things that are rewarding. Your W doesn't understand that.

Hang in there. The first few months are the hardest, the detachment gets easier, it all gets easier. The holidays are the worst, especially at first. But you can get through it, and you will.

Sometimes, going out with friends, doing things you wouldn't normally do, are just what the doc ordered. It's good to mix things up a little, try something new. Hope you have fun!