OK, I give. I quess my references are a bit obscure. They are from the begining chapters of divorce busting. To me, they stood out as examples of the point Michele was trying to get across at the time. African violets and old ladies, foxes and rabbits? an interesting choice of examples.
Why did I bother? Because rather than telling you to snub your wife, get another wife, detach, reattach, get a job, jump off a bridge, or buy a propeller hat spin it and yell woo hoo, I was hoping after a year you would go back to basics and review the text with what you know now. As they say, hindsight is 20/20.
I was hoping you or someone else was reading this now at a stressful time for everyone, even more stressful for people in a divorce situation and those examples, would have stuck out like a sore thumb.
I guess everyone interprets this text differently and resolves their marital problems by drawing their own conclusions(solutions).
Steve, It doesn't seem most of the people on this thread have ever read DR, or are interested in discussing DBing.
Kev, Thanks for the e-mail, I'm busy tonight but will call you soon. I'd highly recommend re-reading the books and MWD's articles and blogs. The forum can also be very helpful, IF it's about that. Good luck on the 180 of not posting
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
