A Choice

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@DEEP

I do not think my W will care for any boundary I set right now. I know that she tells me (last we spoke) that she does not know what she wants right now. I am having a hard time because I know she is still hanging out with OM. All of her friends are as well. Boy, this may be a long ride.... But then again, I really do not know what she is thinking or doing. I do know that she is not staying @ OM's place. She returns each night to her girlfriends house where she stays.

I am also not good with boundaries. Mostly due to fear I know. But if W does not care about it, then what good is it. Also, I feel that if I set a boundary (and I have) she will just feel as though it will be easier to just D. If I tell her to stop or else, it may push the last straw. At least now, she is thinking about our situation and the slight possibility of MC.

As for you, glad to hear W came back. I can imagine all the pain you have felt. Feeling some now myself.

But sounded like things are going a lot better now.

I believe my W will come home also....

Thanks Deep!