So I went to my mommy group today. I almost didn't go as I was so tired this morning after 2 long evenings at wrestling. Glad I did go. There was a woman that has been coming for awhile..has twin 9 month old boys. Somehow it came up that I was single and all I said was my exh chose booze and other women. She said 'mine too'. We started talking. She has no family here and she kicked her husband out 6 months ago. Pretty much the same scenario. How does that make me feel better and sad at the same time? They are legally separated but she doesn't have the nerve to file for D. Like me, she is hoping he will turn it around. He hasn't seen the babies in a month.
I guess I am not alone like I have felt for so long. She has no life either outside those babies. I at least have family here.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!