I don't see a problem with that as long as the only motivation is to be with the kids.
I don't know if you want to rattle her chain a bit here... but if you do... ask her if you can bring someone with. If she asks who... say, "Never mind, its probably not a good idea. OK, see you Xmas eve."
Just sayin'
Like it.
When I was in Flt School in the Air Force one of the instructors told us while we were Lts that everybody knew we were clueless and to take advantage of it. So when ever we would screw up on purpose he told us to blame a higher ranking officer then accept blame. "Major Nelson told us this was OK. (Pause....) Nevermind, you are correct sir, we should have known better."
Worked like a charm.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
