7 months in but still a mess.

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Well today it ended. The divorce was not busted. The judge asked "you guys get along so well are you sure you want a divorce?" I said "it is important to her." No tears from her, no goodbye, no thanks for everything, nothing.

It sucks. I am not sure what I could have done differant. I was commited to divorce busting. I followed my DB counslers advice and read everthing I could get my hands on.

Sometimes there is really nothing else you can do. My wife is gone. My family will never be the same. I am going to move on with my life feeling like I did what I could do.

It is very strange for 13 years, never did one day pass where we did not hug and hold hands. Everyday we showed each other how much we cared. We did it. We really had it, true love. Then one day she wakes up and thinks, I want something differant. This is pretty much how we both see it. She is not sure what it is but she is sure that she is going to go out and find it.

She and I are doing 50/50 custody of our daughter. She lowered the child support to nearly nothing. She really did not take a thing from the house and walked away with out a dime.

Good luck to everyone else.