We're suggesting that you stop overanalyzing every little interaction with her and basing your decisions and actions on whether or not you think it will move the needle more towards reconcilation or divorce. Subtle but vitally important.
Drew, you are right. I 100% agree on this that I have to quit over analyzing things with her. I was doing better on that and then I have been recently helping a friend and he analizes things to death with his W and I guess I started doing it again with my own W. For some time I wasn't taking temperature checks anymore and he was and so I started to again especially with W and MIL becoming softer lately. I started getting away from the basics again and it has left me in a more frusturated mood. I will have to get back to the basics again. DR is a good thing to reread.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
