Dday,

I've told you this before and I'll repeat it again.

Sorry dude, I tend to agree with your cousin.

You have no idea what I'd give to have someone like her in my life right now. She's housed you and supported you through a very traumatic time in your life. She is entitled to her opinion because from all I've read, she's the only one who's truly been there for you. That my friend counts A LOT in my books.