My c told me that the battle that we are in for our marriages are really battles against the spiritual world. The devil is very real and of course does not want your marriage to succeed because it is a god ordained convenant. I had the same episode with my h back at the end of October. I was devasted as I'm sure you are. Come to find out now it was about ow...he thought he was going to get an r with her but she dumped him. H said horrible things to me, escorted me from his apartment complex like I was some kind of criminal. And then he remained silent for 3 weeks until our court appearance then he said no to d! Holy smokes couldn't believe it but that's God for you.
Don't do anything further for your h. Ask God to make it clear by letting something specific happen by a certain date. Pray this everyday, no contact with h and focus on you. Ask some of your friends who are prayer warriors to join you in believing with you. God will answer.
Remember no contact with h, make it all about you instead!
