One day at a time....

[Hope4us]

Oh, and one more thing that recently happened to me.

I was talking to one of the guys who works for me. I've been pretty open with my guys and the troubles W and I were having. Didn't get into details, but they all knew we were in pretty bad shape.

Any way, one of the guys told me that about 10 years ago, he was in the same place as my W was, that he wanted out, etc. Basically he was a WAS. But eventually, he snapped out of it and he now loves his W more than anything because she stuck with him even though he probably didn't deserve it. He said he's just amazed at her patience and now that he sees things clearly, he just can't believe how stupid he was. And this is the part that really hit me. He said to me "ya know, guilt is a m-f'er. Give your W time. That's all she really needs. But once she figures it out and deals with it, she'll love you more than ever".

Something to think about.