Sad to hear those tanks are running dry. Hope a virtual pat on the back for you adds a little. You're doing good with those kids.
Too bad the legal stuff is getting down to little nits and picks. This stuff can truly add up to big legal costs and she as a L ought to know better than anyone. (Urban legend example: the couple who spent thousands in legal fees fighting over a set of worthless Hummel figurines). I hope you can find a way to call her on it and tell her to get this business done.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh