Ya, I think it will help. She really wanted to hurt me last night, she said things like sex with me was bad, she's never been happier than she is now, etc. She just really got nasty, and I have to tell you, I was hurting last night. I have a little anxiety right now-not sure why. I feel like I should tell her off or something, but I won't. I just feel disguisted-what DON'T I KNOW??? It's probably best that I don't know anything else, because I already have horrible visions in my head.
You hurt b/c you care about your family and your ego has taken a beating.
Just know the best way to get to her is by being what she isn't - honorable and dignified. Maintain class despite the way she's acting.
As a young L, an older attorney told me a lesson about catching a witness in a lie in front of a jury and the best way to show that. And the snippet was that you want to get in quick, set the dagger (the lie), then get out quickly before you get any sh#t on yourself.
Well, you've set that dagger. Now it's time to get back before you get any of it on you.