Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok,
well yesterday the hearing went completely my way. I am required to pay all the bills-which I already agreed to, and I am required to give her a couple hundred dollars each month to help with the groceries for the boys. She was completely nuts in the courthouse yesterday-a confident sense of entitlement.

My lawyer is so good-he shot down everything her and her lawyer proposed as far as monetary support. Now, this is just a temp. order, until I get back in March.

My W, was just a complete snatch, and wanted everything. We had words a few times-I know I shouldn't have engaged her.

OK,now for AFTER the hearing. I am at another of my sons concert, and she starts texting me, telling me about all of her friends, Male friends, then she really starts to get nasty, telling me that she is seeing this guy from Dallas who owns his own business, and she is flying to see him over Christmas, and that she has never been happier, and he buys her lingerie, and on and on. I texted her back that she was classy, and have fun. So, then she sends me a picture of them cheek to cheek, and the attached text said see, I've never been happier.

I had a rough time for awhile, but then I just got this feeling of eh-whatever. She has decided what path she is going down, and I am not going anywhere near that path. I AM DONE with her. My boys and I leave for my M on Sunday, I get the boys after 6 on Friday, so that is good.

I am doing ok, keeping busy-truck registration/inspection, errands, etc. I have to tell you I expected the worst, but this FAR Exceeds what I could even imagine.