WAW wants to get togeather?

[chatterbug]

No letter. But you are there for the conversation. If you print that letter. You burn it.

You prepare for the conversation. You make sure she does not shift blame. You make sure she owns up to what she is doing. You make sure you do not hide your pain. You make sure your children know this is not what you want. But what she wants.

You keep her on topic. And you make sure your children know this is not their fault.

You also will need some standard fog answers to get her back on track.
One liners.

Go in with a script yourself. The truth. If she shifts blame say something like.

" Please. Lets keep to the topic onhand here."

Other ones to have on hand.

" I do not want to seperate our family."
" I do not want to divorce."
" I understand how you can feel that way. Please return to the topic onhand here with daughter."

When the conversation ends. Go with your daughter. Leave the room with her and confort her.

If there is silence during the conversation. Let it linger.

You control the conversation. You are going to show your daughter what it is to a father , and husband who is standing up for his family.