I don't know if i should take a stance like:

A few days ago I texted you my expectations and boundaries, have you met them? What have you done to prove you are trustworthy?

How have you showed me, zephyr, baby respect and support. I put in the msg until he does these things i will not conversate with him. he can be testing my seriousness to wha to what i texted, or he can so oblivious and not even register it.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline