LOL, no I don't think anything good has ever, no take that back, I received a similar message from XW several weeks ago after months of not speaking, so.......
But, my cousin didn't really get a chance to air anything yet. I got home with enough time to shower and go to work this morning. "talking" last night would have been a disaster anyway as it appeared she was hanging out with the neighbor all night, and I am not getting into a heated discussion with her after either of us have been drinking. She did catch me on the way out, but was not very talkative, I made light talk and got responses, but no mention of what was on her mind last night.
All I know at this point is that she thinks the kids shouldn't know anything about what XW and I are doing and essentially shouldn't be doing family dinners together. No Doubt, I'm going to get the 3rd degree for staying at XW's again. As far as the kids are concerned, I put them to bed and they were sawing logs snorring minutes later. So they have no idea I stayed. All they know is we had dinner and XW and I were talking for a while after they went to bed. And so what, we both passed out litteraly 4 feet apart from each other for the bulk of the night.
They are estatic, period. Just of the simple fact they are once again attneding dinners with their mom and dad, mom and dad aren't mad at each other anymore and being friends, and there isn't anyone else around them anymore that makes them uncomfortable.
There has been zero affections other than light hugs and a kiss or two on the cheek to indicate anything else going on.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11