DO take heed of what others are saying here, my dear.
There's a lot of shifting going on in your relationship right now, old patterns being broken, and the ride ain't gonna go smooth. It's going to take some time for the water to seek it's level point, and there's still going to be lots of challenges along the way to deal with.
Things go good for awhile, then it seems to get rocky again for a bit, taking us off guard. But hang in there, and try your best to not "react" to whatever comes along.
ALWAYS give yourself AT LEAST 24 hours before you do anything that might have some lasting impact. Let him sit on that email a bit, and see where he takes it from here.
{{{{BIG HUGS TO YOU}}}}
Last edited by Jamesjohn; 12/22/0303:33 AM.
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