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Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! luvless #1896643 12/17/09 06:41 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon T TrentC Member
TrentC Member T Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,240 Oregon	Originally Posted By: luvless You cannot change agreements when the person refuses to talk to you. Sure you can. You can decide for yourself what behavior you will accept from your spouse; it just won't impact them until they do talk to you. Boundaries are agreements; they can choose to accept the terms, or reject them and face the consequences you have set forth. Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement "Every day is another chance to get it right."

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! TrentC #1896645 12/17/09 06:43 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless OP Member
OP luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	understood T - more clear - thanks. M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! Coach #1896654 12/17/09 06:49 PM
Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,779 G Gnosis Member
Gnosis Member G Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,779	Gno is biting his tongue.

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! Gnosis #1896668 12/17/09 06:59 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless OP Member
OP luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	stop biting it G - tell me! M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! luvless #1896670 12/17/09 07:02 PM
Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,779 G Gnosis Member
Gnosis Member G Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,779	I've learned its best to never pointless to argue with a stubborn woman Last edited by Gnosis; 12/17/09 07:03 PM. Reason: correction

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! Gnosis #1896672 12/17/09 07:03 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372 S soleil Member
soleil Member S Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,372	Just say, Yes, dear!!! Me: 29 Got a ticket to the D concert

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! Gnosis #1896674 12/17/09 07:03 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless OP Member
OP luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	LOL argue with me c'mon M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! luvless #1896690 12/17/09 07:20 PM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975 M mindfull Member
mindfull Member M Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 3,975	I'm stayin' out of this one! Me-46, D-21, S15, S13 After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011 The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! mindfull #1896737 12/17/09 07:54 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles L luvless OP Member
OP luvless Member L Joined: May 2006 Posts: 1,583 Los Angeles	G!!! how am i being stubborn? tell me what you think i'm doing wrong? M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10

Re: feel like giving up - talk to me! luvless #1896760 12/17/09 08:11 PM
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Gnosis Member G Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,779	Luv, read your own ENTIRE thread and make notes. If there is something there you're not sure of... ask.

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