Ok, well yesterday the hearing went completely my way. I am required to pay all the bills-which I already agreed to, and I am required to give her a couple hundred dollars each month to help with the groceries for the boys. She was completely nuts in the courthouse yesterday-a confident sense of entitlement.
My lawyer is so good-he shot down everything her and her lawyer proposed as far as monetary support. Now, this is just a temp. order, until I get back in March.
My W, was just a complete snatch, and wanted everything. We had words a few times-I know I shouldn't have engaged her.
OK,now for AFTER the hearing. I am at another of my sons concert, and she starts texting me, telling me about all of her friends, Male friends, then she really starts to get nasty, telling me that she is seeing this guy from Dallas who owns his own business, and she is flying to see him over Christmas, and that she has never been happier, and he buys her lingerie, and on and on. I texted her back that she was classy, and have fun. So, then she sends me a picture of them cheek to cheek, and the attached text said see, I've never been happier.
I had a rough time for awhile, but then I just got this feeling of eh-whatever. She has decided what path she is going down, and I am not going anywhere near that path. I AM DONE with her. My boys and I leave for my M on Sunday, I get the boys after 6 on Friday, so that is good.
I am doing ok, keeping busy-truck registration/inspection, errands, etc. I have to tell you I expected the worst, but this FAR Exceeds what I could even imagine.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010
Ya, I think it will help. She really wanted to hurt me last night, she said things like sex with me was bad, she's never been happier than she is now, etc. She just really got nasty, and I have to tell you, I was hurting last night. I have a little anxiety right now-not sure why. I feel like I should tell her off or something, but I won't. I just feel disguisted-what DON'T I KNOW??? It's probably best that I don't know anything else, because I already have horrible visions in my head.
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010
Seems to me her little flurry of texts and the sweet pic might be useful to you, no? Greek
Not to make light of it SD, but I can see a big, glossy blow up mounted on a poster board for use at a final hearing on alimony and custody. Maybe bring it in the courtroom with a sheet over it - you pick the color.
Ya, I think it will help. She really wanted to hurt me last night, she said things like sex with me was bad, she's never been happier than she is now, etc. She just really got nasty, and I have to tell you, I was hurting last night. I have a little anxiety right now-not sure why. I feel like I should tell her off or something, but I won't. I just feel disguisted-what DON'T I KNOW??? It's probably best that I don't know anything else, because I already have horrible visions in my head.
Hurting people say hurting things. Don't read or respond to anything right now. The anxiety is just part of the rollercoaster right now. Manage your energy.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
pardon me, but what a SKANK that W of yours has turned into! I just cant even reconcile the behavior. We are about the same age, and kids at the same age range. It just doesn't add up!
The only good thing in all of this is that you're only gone until March, and then home...
I just pray for those boys while you're gone. They will be without supervision a LOT.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
