Ravenly,

I was just posting the same things Cutter mentioned. Those are the steps you should take.

I also suggest reading Not Just Friends, very helpful in understanding how and why these affairs happen and steps to rebuilding trust.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 12/17/09 06:28 PM. Reason: cross posting
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