Hope and heartache

[ClingingToHope]

Interesting talk with the IC. She divorced when her kids were grown. She's read the DB books, but still wondered why I haven't filed for D. Especially since I'll likely come out in better shape financially than I am now. She also is pro snooping. She said information is always good to have.

I think I'll try not to snoop to help my detachment.

She also said I'm doing all the right things in terms of getting through the process.

She also tossed out that I should consider moving home at the end of January if I haven't filed. She agreed it was a mistake for me to move out AND to offer such a generous payment while separated.

I'm not going to move home. That can't be undone without ending any chance of R. W is already struggling financially. I'm going to let her drift, drift, drift while I continue to do my own thing.