Ohh--scary--to do an "accidental" brush while the A is active? gotta find a way to make that subtle and accidental.

And yes, visualizing is a great idea. I can make a reasonable, but happy vision of some chuckles, some checking in on how things are going.

Doesn't have to be all business. He seemed so cranky about meeting at the library that that will be the first obstacle to overcome. Maybe I can start with how much I appreciate that he was willing to try meeting there.

Keep suggestions coming!


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process