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#1896444 12/17/09 03:13 PM
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Well here's my new thread.

Nothing too new going on. Trying to get through the holidays and pay bills. Clients have been really slow in paying, doesn't make it fun.

H has been soso. He's been working a lot and is mostly exhausted at night from working outside. Kids are good and healthy

Woke up last night with the other side of my mouth hurting... UGGG.. I have a tooth that has part of my filling missing so im guessing that is what it is. Have to go tomorrow to get it fixed.

I can't win .. the dentist is making a fortune on me. smirk

I had this weird dream the other night... This really good looking man was in it , and he wanted to take me away...LOL... Then he told me he was only 25!! I told him in my dream that I was married and didn't do that... even in my dreams im loyal... yup pathetic I am.

Thanks NC for checking up on me.. things have been so busy... at least I have all shopping and wrapping done!... Hope you are well. wink

Have a good day all.


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Originally Posted By: fightingirish

I had this weird dream the other night... This really good looking man was in it , and he wanted to take me away...LOL... Then he told me he was only 25!! I told him in my dream that I was married and didn't do that... even in my dreams im loyal... yup pathetic I am.



You were dreaming about me??....(25 I wish)

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Thats funny Doc

Hi Irish. Glad thing are at least stable right now for you.
I am almost done with the shopping and have most of my baking and wrapping done. H even helped me!

JAK


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Doc it was YOU, But a younger you!! But I've always preferred older men though! blush


Thanks Jak.. Glad to hear that h is helping out with the wrapping, My H didn't do any wrapping and went with me once to shop this year, first time ever in 20 years.


May be planning a disney vacation in Jan if all goes well with money. We'll see. I need it that is for sure.

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How 'bout a younger man in an older man's body?

Seriously, it's good to hear you're doing better and things are looking up.

Disney sounds fun -- you guys really deserve a break.

(It'll still be a while before I can attempt to become a Disney-land type dad. But that's just one of my dreams.)

Hugs and blessings.


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nc~ummm that would be good... LOL grin

We've been going to Disney World since S7 was a baby. Its tradition, although, an expensive one. We don't take vacations in the summer because of work load, so this is our big vacation.

They run a lot of specials through the year, you would enjoy it.. they do have a star wars ride ya know wink

Off to the dentist again today, although Im thinking my pain in my jaw isn't my tooth but TMJ. My regular doc said I have a mild case of it.. great, something else.

Anyways, we might be getting loads of snow this wkend.. boys are excited about that!!

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Hey TAL!

I'm jealous. We got some snow last night, but it was only an inch or so. I love big snows!

Hope things are going well. I've been thinkin about ya!


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Hey Hope, nice to hear from you.

We ended up with only a dusting... NYC got a lot.. Theo must be buried in!!

Got up this morning.. H was out and gone hunting. He calls me and asks me what i was dreaming about last night.. that is sounded like I was having sex with someone????? WTF.. Actually I don't remember what i was dreaming about last night but it wasn't that... He said I was moaning... I said could it have to do with my pinched nerve in my arm that I hurt again playing with my son yesterday???? What a freakin jerko.

I just hope this paranoid behavior is not because he is up to something.. although he has been working 24/7 so probably not but it always makes me wonder when he gets like that.

ahhhhh... I can't catch a breather ever.


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Hi, Irish,

Sorry to hear about your S and the croup -- you guys never seem to get a break from that stuff.

Not much to say about your H. Maybe he was hoping he was the one you were dreaming about.

In any event, working too much will make one prone to stupid words and deeds. Each of us needs to remember to get the sleep we need (I've been bad about that, and had a friend admonish me for it just this weekend.)


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Yup the croup it is, but thankfully its really just turning into a bad cold. As for me, The dentis went horribly wrong.. He ended up giving me 5 shots of novocaine and still couldn't get me numb, on top of which he gave me a shot of ephednrine (sp?) which I had a reaction too.. ended up he couldn't fill my tooth and Said i neeeded another root canal!!

Went back to my regular dentist today and he confirmed it, but said that other denitst should have never given me 5 shots of novocaine. I left there is tears last week... I never felt so badly.

So next wk is the other root canal $1200 later...

Im not so upset by h's remarks, it just aggrevates me when he says stupid crap like that. As though he has anything to worry about, unlike me.

S4 xmas party tomorrow, resting today for it. I have to bake tonight and Im cooking xmas eve.


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
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