Has your L ever asked, or especially conintually asked if D was what you want? And your answer?
No, b/c X has always been so eager and wanting the divorce. It is now what I want. X sends me a rude or nasty email several times a week. My L says he talks (or emails to me) like a dog, and he really does sometimes. I deserve better than that.
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Undoubtedly your H's L has done the same, and in his heart of hearts, what do you think his answer was?
Because of OW and his intense anger towards me, I think he really does. If/when OW drops him as her pattern is (3 marriages down already), then maybe he'll feel differently. But it will be too late.
NC, I would agree with you, but my D has taken such a long time. I've been going through this process now for about 2 years. I don't intend, and won't get into a serious relationship any time in the near future, but would like to do some casual dating at this point.
