Hope and heartache

[mishka422]

Maybe you could talk over strategies to keep from snooping so that you can continue your detachment from your W. You said you feel better not snooping so you need to keep that up.

I understand feeling glad that she is struggling. It's a small vindication. Just know that you don't want her to turn to you because of financial reasons. That is not going to repair your M and will most likely cause her to resent you more. She will feel trapped and put the blame for that on you (totally illogical but we all know how these WAS's are).