Yeah, stupid men! smile

I don't want a hookup, or I would say that on my profile, duh! I did get 'favorited' by a man looking for 'discreet sexual encounters'.....ick! Blocked that sucker ASAP!

However, I am curious as I have been out of the dating pool for a while...is there a rule of thumb on kissing? I am not a big fan of it on the first date b/c that tends to encourage the 'hookup'-hunters out there....beyond that I am clueless.

It took 5 months with bf # 1 (high school) and 6 weeks/5 dates with bf #2 (Dan, also high school).
Then there were several first kisses in college, but they were not on 'dates'... blush just guys I had known all through college and flirted with sporadically, then we kissed after a night at the bar or a party...

Not trying to hijack Kerry just looking for the male POV! smile

Sorry you didn't feel a spark, but you do have me curious about HotPot!


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17