I don't know the geography of alaska...but I do know that phone exchanges don't always ring true to their place...ie..my very own exchange shows up as the town next door...
is it remotely possible that he is where he said he would be? or that he is where he was supposed to be at that time but didn't tell you that it involved being in anchorage and you're jumping to conclusions?
not saying you are...just wondering if there are other explanations for what you think you're seeing.
You didn't go into a lot of details of the conversation. But since it was a "forklift' place, is there any chance he was there on business????? Or do you know this other hussy? He must know you have caller ID, Hell, who DOESN'T??? There is no way he would call you to talk, if he knew you were going to see the caller ID from a woman he was seeing?????
Although I will admit that my W e-mailed me one time from her BF's screen name! Since she had been living with him for quite a while, I didn't go into shock, but your situation is different. Has he called to try to explain?????
why the ??? (and why'd you block me from replying to your email???)
let me rephrase what I meant..
on a phone bill my # doesn't show up as my town it shows up as the town next door becuase the exchange crosses paths in some areas...does that make it clearer? just because the first 3 digits tell you it's town x, doesn't mean it aint town y..thus my questioning if anchorage is near where he was "supposed" to be...
and of course the other possibility...
he was in anchorage and new he would be in anchorage (for reasons other than ow) but didn't tell you that he was going to be in anchorage becuase you associate anchorage (tired of me saying anchorage yet?) ow...men have a terrible habbit of doing stupid things like that.
I was NOT questioning your comments, just thought you might be taking a break from the board like you said!
He WAS in Anchorage, Anchorage, Anchorage, Anchorage, Anchorage, and IF he called her from a # she could associate a hussy from, then I agree, he did a stupid thing!!!!!
However, I don't THINK that was the case, I just think she overreacted! Women have a terrible habit of doing stupid things like that!!!!!!
Thanks for confirming my Cyber Curiosity, but the problem may be on the 'puter illiterate end
have you ever noticed that I tend to spiral downward and stick to my own thread (just take a look at where the majority of my recent posts are) and then decide to step away from me for a while and take a peek out there in bb land to see what I can do?
plus I couldn't help but look into alaskangles d talk as she was very happy with her h not that long ago.
Sorry, just concerned. It's nice of you to take time away from your troubles to help someone else. After all, that's how we met. You sound mellow tonight??
Shiny, alaskangal isn't telling us much is she????? The last time I priced forklifts, the cheapest one was around $35,000. He must really love her!
I thought the ow was out of the pic completely before I ever came to piecing or divorce busting... I had gotten phone calls saying from a h that my H and his w were having an affair. Her name is Suzanne. Her H says there were phone calls going back and forth between our homes particularly while I was away in NY last May and June and that my H and his w were meeting in Anchorage. Their last name was mentioned on the cell phone call....when I called back to see where H was calling from by the woman who answered...the cell phone Now says it is an Amy's phone...no longer is it BJ Lift Truck or whatever it had said after the second time I called..it's all lies, deceit and BS...am sick and tired of it....am going to not sleep sexually with H but get through holidays as best I can and then seek out an attorney's advice and help to get out of this. I could forgive infidelity...but can not work with the dishonesty and the lies...he is not willing to even admit something is going on and wants me to think I am crazy. I am tired of the crazymaking behaviour. It's abusive. I am ok. I am sober. I am a bit sad, angry, and feel violated...but am going to be all right. Divorce busting works....just not for everyone. It has raised my self esteem however and helped me to see that helping others is a great thing and that I don't have to live in pain...I have choices today.
